When Homeschooling and Housekeeping Send You Running For Cover
Homeschooling, housekeeping, and keeping your sanity.
These three things seem like they are next to impossible to achieve…. all together at least! Something always gets left out of the mix. I saw a meme once that said: happy kids, clean house, sanity… pick 2. It hits home for sure. We could easily change those to homeschool, clean house, sanity… pick 2. It can be so hard to keep up on it all. I’ve had days when I shut the door to my room and cried because I was so overwhelmed!! However, housekeeping, homeschooling ,and staying sane don’t have to compete with each other. It really is possible to have all of these things. I promise. It just takes some hard work, some time, and some changes. Here’s some ideas for when homeschooling and housekeeping send you running for cover.
Stop everything you are doing and give yourself a moment to relax. Forget about the laundry and dishes. Forget the History lesson. They can wait. This may seem counteractive, but you will be so much more productive when you’re thinking straight. Taking a break may only be for a few minutes or it may be a few hours.
Get Up Early Or Stay Up Late
This doesn’t seem very fun, but getting up before the kids or staying up after they are in bed will help you catch up on your chores. Plus, starting your day with a clean home will take a lot of your stress away for the day!
Seize the Moment
Anytime you see a free moment, do some cleaning. When my kids are working quietly on their schoolwork, and my toddler is playing, I do a little cleaning. You don’t have to go overboard. Just do anything that you can fit in. Wipe the countertops, sweep the floor, pick up some toys… whatever you can. It will all add up. Something else I like to do is clean up my bathroom before I take a shower. I am already in there, so I can wipe down the sinks and mirrors in a flash before I jump in the shower.
Have a Scheduled Cleaning Day
Sit aside a time to clean you home, and just clean. Don’t do anything else that day. A scheduled cleaning day once per week, it helps you to stay on top of the small things throughout the week, and focus on the bigger things on that one day. Homeschooling on a 4-day schedule can give you an extra day to get some much needed housework done.
How to Make a 4-Day Schedule Work for Your Homeschool
Enlist your kids! Make sure they have daily chores. This will lighten your load so much! My kids are in charge of their own rooms, dishes, and taking out the trash daily. They also help with weekly tasks like laundry day or whatever is needed.(Read my post on Chores for Kids Ages 5+ for more ideas and a FREE chore chart!)
Don’t Set Impossibly High Standards
Moms can tend to set impossibly high standards for themselves. Usually they base their ideas on what other people say or what Sally So-n-So’s house looks like. Let’s be real though, comparison is an ugly thing. It can make us feel like our perfectly fine home is just not good enough. Don’t stress yourself out over what other people think you should be doing. You do what you can do. Being a stay-at-home homeschool mom means that your children will be present at all times. You will be cooking a lot of meals at home, and dirtying a lot of dishes. They will be dragging out toys or tracking in mud all day. It’s just part of life. So, don’t go comparing your life to someone who is not in the same place as you.
Mom’s with young toddlers and babies, remember that they are little. There will be toys strewn about the floors, peanut butter smeared all over the carpet, and tiny peanut butter footprints down your hall. (Yes… this happened to me.) However, they will not be small forever. So, when naptime and meltdowns prolong your schooldays, and your house looks like a toy bomb went off, try to remember that those things can wait. Our children come first, and the rest will follow.
All of my life I have heard that prayer changes things… and it really does. My prayers lately have included a prayer for me to be a better mother, teacher, a diligent housekeeper, and wife. All of these things encompass who I am as a person. I want to give my all in each area. As silly as it may seem to some to pray for help with juggling housekeeping, homeschooling, and all of our roles in motherhood… it’s really not. God cares… even about the small things. God takes care of the sparrows. How much more does he take care of the homeschool mom?God cares... even about the small things. God takes care of the sparrows. How much more does he take care of the homeschool mom? Click To Tweet